Monday, May 14, 2012

A Mother's Day Recipe

      Today is Mother's Day and I was at Linda's house without having saved any money for today or bought her a present so it was very important that I keep the food costs low when I made dinner. She had broccoli from the food bank and a red onion and a yellow onion and fresh mint that I had asked her to buy last week and still had a lot left. Together we walked to the fruit stand and bought a big bag of mung bean sprouts (it feltlike six ounces) and a tiny yellow mango.
    When we got it all home I fried a red onion on a roaring heat with 3 tablespoons of olive oil and one teaspoon of corn oil for instinct's sake. The red onion began to smell and sound really great and get really brown at the same time that it clarified, so I sliced up a a whole bulb of garlic in slivers so the flavors would be distributed but not uniformly distributed. I cut away slice after slice of mango from the pit in my hand and then separated each piece of cut mango one by one in my hand with a paring knife (As carefully as I could, which wasn't as carefully as i would have liked) and dropped them in the sizzling skillet. Then as if i were moving to the tune of a song in my head I rinsed the mung bean sprouts and threw them in the riotous pan.
    I stirred over and over and was hearing Cuba somehow and was so happy and then I thought that all it needed was water so the hot oil would fight the cold water and it would  be all pyrotechnic and everything. But I poured in too big a splash and it altogether stopped the cooking process.
    Showing a lot of white in my eyes, I truned the heat up to high (which I would never otherwise do except to save dinner when I've blown it like this) and waited for it to boil and when it did I covered it and turned it to medium low and washed and rubbed between my hands some leaves of mint and cut them a little and threw them in and covered it again: then I cut up the broccoli as small as it would go and still look like little trees (Thanks, Maria, for teaching me that) and threw that in and then turned the heat up to medium again until the broccoli was soft enough I could eat it even though i don't have back teeth any more (I was a model). Even Linda coulodn't believe how good the food turned out to be. Oh yes. Ialso spiced it with about six shakes of cumin and the juice of half a lime, though if I were willing to add a grain of salt instead of lime I could have.
     Congratulations to everyone out there stepping up and being their own mommies. This is your day, too.

Donde No Hay Cook



       Here is where I talk about my latest food and drink experiences. I think a lot more about these things now because I keep trying to quit cigarettes and have to learn to live without cigarettes. The old definition of "The Good Life" was an Epicurean concept that no one was going to come in and make people treat each other decently and no one was going to come in and make them enjoy themselves, though people are always trying to do both to all of us all of the time. So it is important for people who care about these things to take extra care to treat others as we would wish to be treated, to take at least a little care of our health, and to enjoy ourselves,, because no one would buy Snapple Tea if it were more expensive than Lipton or it didn't taste as good or, some would say, better.
        I call this entry "Donde No Hay Cook" ("Where There Is No Cook") because all too often young people grow up fending for themselves without a set dinner time even when the family can afford to, skimming cheese from a three-thirds empty refrigerator and having your parents yell at you (Been There). People benefit so much when someone in the same age bracket guesses from institutional experience when a quote-unquote "family dinner time" is supposed to happen and says, "Dammit! I'm going to cook something. Where's the recipe book?" That's why they say it's never too late to have a happy childhood, because if you still have a spark in you or if one can be awakened with words or music, you can awaken to all those old childhood longings and begin to use your brain to plan how to meet them.
       The I Ching has this wonderful hexagram of The Corners of The Mouth (#27) and I can never exactly interpret the text once and for all, but it always turns up for me when I'm asking if a new woman friend is going to turn out to be a girlfriend (meaning, Will we have sex?). What the hexagram says to me is it's like a person with terrible desire looking to another and finding a person with an equally strong different desire that doesn't meet the first one's plans. Can the two be friends?

Monday, May 7, 2012

My Meditation Focus Today Is...

                               My Mediatation Focus Today Is...


    My meditation focus today is a yellow and white local sea snail shell with rays winding around its center like ribbons around a May pole. Its aimed white crown points the finger at an unknown breastplate, like a pyramid mace head on a spear, when the warrior hides himself even from kind or yielding glances behind the mockingly gentle curves of a perfect full body shield. Such is the flawless face of those who polish the ocean's depths by themselves.

                                          (c) 5/6/12 Tim Conger